The Mind Game: Why Most Youth Players Are Never Taught to Think the Game
Kenny Flermoen · Founder & Academy Director, Mind Game Baseball Academy · 16 min read

Watch enough youth baseball and you will notice something. Most players are not playing the game. They are executing instructions.
The coach calls a sign, the player follows it. The coach yells "two strikes, protect," the hitter shortens up because they were told to, not because they understand why. The coach tells the shortstop where to play, and the shortstop stands there, often without knowing what the count is, who is on base, or why that position matters for this specific hitter in this specific situation.
That is not baseball IQ. That is compliance. And it is the default mode for a huge percentage of youth baseball in this country, including right here in the CSRA.
What I am describing has a name at this academy. We call it The Mind Game, and it is the entire reason this program carries that name instead of something generic. The Mind Game is a player who knows the situation before the pitch is thrown and has already decided what they are going to do if the ball comes to them. It is a hitter who has an actual approach at the plate, not just swing mechanics. It is a pitcher who is locating with intent rather than just trying to throw strikes. It is a player who can read a swing and adjust before the next pitch. This post is about that gap, why it exists, and how we actually close it.
Why Youth Baseball Stopped Teaching Players to Think
This did not happen by accident, and it is not really anyone's fault in particular. A few things converged to produce a generation of players who are mechanically sound and situationally lost.
Travel ball schedules are packed. Coaches have limited practice time and a lot of physical skills to cover. Teaching a kid to swing the bat correctly is measurable and visible in a way that teaching them to understand a game situation is not. So practice time goes overwhelmingly to mechanics, and situational thinking gets reduced to a coach calling out the answer in real time rather than a player working it out themselves.
There is also a structural issue. Most youth coaches are volunteers, often parents, who are doing their best with limited time to prepare. Calling out the play from the dugout is faster and more reliable in the short term than building a player's understanding of the game. It produces fewer mistakes today. It also produces a 14-year-old who has played travel ball for six years and still does not know what to do with a runner on first and one out because nobody ever made him figure it out.
The result is a generation of players who can hit a ball off a tee correctly and have no idea why they are moving to cover second base on a steal attempt. That gap shows up the moment a player reaches a level where coaches expect players to think for themselves, usually around high school varsity or competitive travel ball, and it is genuinely difficult to close at that point because the habit of not thinking has been reinforced for years.
What The Mind Game Actually Looks Like
The Mind Game is not a personality trait and it is not something a kid either has or does not have. It is built the same way every other skill in this game is built: through specific instruction, repetition, and a coach who is willing to make a player work through the thinking instead of doing it for them.
Here is what it actually covers.
Knowing the Situation, Every Pitch
This is the foundation everything else sits on. Before every single pitch, a player on the field should know the count, the number of outs, who is on base, and what the score is. Not generally aware of it. Actually know it, specifically, before the pitch is thrown.
A player who knows this information makes different decisions than a player who does not, on every single play. A ground ball with a runner on first and no outs is a different play than the exact same ground ball with a runner on first and two outs. The fielding mechanics are identical. The decision about where the ball goes is completely different. A player who has not processed the situation before the ball is hit is making that decision in real time, under pressure, with no preparation. A player who has processed it already knows the answer before the ball leaves the bat.
I ask players constantly, between innings and during water breaks, simple direct questions: "What's the count? How many outs? Who's on?" Not as a test to embarrass anyone. As a habit-building exercise. A player who has been asked that question two hundred times over a season starts asking it of themselves automatically.
Having an Actual Approach at the Plate
Most youth hitters do not have an approach. They have a swing, and they try to use it on whatever gets thrown at them. That is not the same thing as hitting with a plan.
An approach means a hitter has decided, before the at-bat or even before the pitch, what they are trying to do. Sometimes that approach is simple: "I'm looking for something to drive, middle of the field, until I have two strikes." Sometimes it is situational: "Runner on second, nobody out, my job is to hit the ball to the right side and move him to third, even if that means giving up some power." Sometimes it is about a specific pitcher: "He's been living on the outer half all game, I'm not trying to pull anything until he proves he can come inside."
None of that is mechanics. A hitter with a textbook-perfect swing and no approach will get out-thought by a pitcher and a catcher who have a plan, every time the talent gap is close. A hitter with an average swing and a real approach will compete with hitters who are more physically gifted, because they are not guessing.
Teaching approach starts simple, even for a 10-year-old: "What are you looking to do this at-bat?" If the answer is "hit it hard," that is not an approach yet. Push for more. "Where? Why? What if it's 0-2?" By 13 or 14, a player should be able to walk into the box with a real plan and adjust that plan as the count changes.
Locating Pitches With Intent, Not Just Throwing Strikes
For pitchers, the gap shows up as the difference between throwing strikes and locating with purpose.
A young pitcher who has been taught to "just throw strikes" will groove the ball down the middle and hope for the best. A pitcher who understands location is working with a plan: setting up a hitter with a pitch on one side of the plate so the next pitch on the other side looks different, working backward from how he wants the at-bat to end, recognizing that a hitter who has been fooled by an inside fastball is now vulnerable to something away.
This does not require a complicated pitch arsenal. A youth pitcher with one fastball can still locate with intent if he understands that throwing the same pitch to the same spot every time makes him predictable, and that mixing locations, even with one pitch, changes the hitter's timing and confidence.
I teach young pitchers to think about each pitch as a question they are asking the hitter, not just a throw they are making. "Can you hit this pitch in this location?" The hitter's swing, or lack of one, answers that question and informs what gets thrown next.
Reading a Swing and Adjusting
This is one of the more advanced pieces of The Mind Game, and it applies to pitchers, catchers, and even fielders who are paying attention.
A hitter's swing tells you something every single time they take it, whether they make contact or not. A swing that is late on a fastball tells the pitcher that fastball is working and the hitter may be looking for something slower. A swing that is way out in front tells the opposite story. A hitter who takes a borderline pitch close tells you something about their patience and their strike zone discipline that at-bat.
Most youth players, including pitchers and catchers, are not taught to actually watch this information and use it. They throw the next pitch based on a generic sequence, not based on what the hitter's last swing just told them.
Teaching this starts with simply asking the question after a swing: "What did that swing tell you?" A swing and a miss where the hitter was way out in front means the next pitch could be slower or further away. A foul ball straight back usually means the timing was close and the location was close, which is valuable information for both the next pitch and the hitter's adjustment.
Decision-Making Under Pressure, Practiced Before It Matters
The plays that get botched in games are almost never plays a player has never seen before. They are plays the player has seen but never had to actually decide on under pressure until the moment it counted.
This is fixable, and it is fixable specifically through practice design. Most practice ground balls and fly balls happen with no situation attached. The ball is hit, the player fields it, the rep ends. That teaches mechanics. It does not teach decision-making, because there was never a decision to make.
Attaching a situation to every single defensive rep changes that. Before the ball is hit, the situation is announced. The fielder has to know where they are throwing before they field the ball, not figure it out while the ball is in the glove. Over a season of reps built this way, decision-making under pressure becomes a practiced skill rather than something a player is doing for the first time live in a game with the actual pressure attached.
Recovering From a Mistake Mid-Play, Not Just Mid-Game
We have written separately about the mental side of recovering from a strikeout or an error between innings. The Mind Game includes a faster, more immediate version of that same skill: recovering from a mistake in the middle of the same play.
A cutoff man who throws to the wrong base needs to recognize that immediately and communicate to back up the next play, not freeze. A baserunner who breaks too early on a steal attempt and gets caught in a bad spot needs to make the best decision available in that moment, not the decision they would have made with no mistake on the table. A hitter who takes a terrible swing on pitch one of an at-bat needs to reset the approach for pitch two rather than letting one bad swing dictate the rest of the at-bat.
This kind of in-play recovery is rarely taught directly. It gets better through experience, but experience alone is a slow teacher. Naming it directly, "you misjudged that, what's the next best decision right now," speeds up the learning significantly compared to letting a player figure it out purely through trial and error over years.
Building On Success Instead of Getting Complacent
The flip side of recovering from failure is something coaches talk about far less: what to do after something goes well.
A pitcher who just got a hitter out with a well-located fastball away often goes right back to the same pitch in the same spot next time up, assuming what worked once will work again. Sometimes it does. Often the hitter has adjusted, and the pitcher who is not thinking about that adjustment gets burned by repeating a successful pitch one time too many.
A hitter who gets a hit on a good approach sometimes abandons that approach the next at-bat because the pressure is off and they start guessing again. Players who are strong in The Mind Game treat a successful approach the same way they treat a failed one: as information to build on, not a result to either dwell on or immediately forget.
Teaching this means asking the question after success too, not just after failure. "That worked. Why did it work? What do you do with that information next time?" Most youth coaching only debriefs the bad outcomes. The good outcomes deserve the same level of thinking, because that is where a player learns to repeat success intentionally instead of accidentally.
How to Actually Build This in Practice
Building The Mind Game does not require a separate practice block or a curriculum purchased from an app. It requires changing how existing reps are run.
Attach a situation to every drill. Ground balls, fly balls, batting practice rounds. Announce the count, the outs, the runners before the rep. Require the player to know the answer before the ball is in play, not after.
Ask questions instead of giving answers. When a player makes a decision, right or wrong, ask them to explain their thinking before you correct it. "Why did you throw there?" tells you whether the decision was reasoned or accidental, and it builds the habit of reasoning before acting.
Debrief good plays, not just mistakes. Spend real time on why something worked, not just why something did not. Players learn to repeat success when they understand the reasoning behind it.
Watch baseball with intention, not just for entertainment. We have written about this specifically in our GreenJackets game development guide. Watching a professional or high-level amateur game with a specific focus — an approach, a location pattern, a defensive read — builds pattern recognition that no amount of drilling alone can replicate.
Let players fail at decisions in practice. A player who is never allowed to make a wrong decision in a low-stakes setting will make their first wrong decision in a game, under real pressure, with real consequences. Practice is where the cost of a bad decision should be cheapest.
This Is the Whole Point of the Name
I built Mind Game Baseball Academy around the idea that the mental side of this sport is not a soft add-on to mechanics. It is a fundamental skill set that has been systematically under-taught in youth baseball for years, replaced by a culture of telling players what to do instead of teaching them to understand why.
Most people call this baseball IQ. We call it The Mind Game, because that is the actual game being played underneath the physical one, on every pitch, and it is the skill set this academy was built around.
A player with a smart approach, real situational awareness, and the ability to make good decisions under pressure will outplay a more physically gifted player who has never been taught to think the game, more often than people expect. A player who has both the physical tools and a strong Mind Game is the player who actually has a ceiling worth talking about.
That is what we build here. Not just swings and throws. Players who understand the game they are playing.
Register your player or book a lesson to see what coaching that takes The Mind Game as seriously as mechanics actually looks like.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is baseball IQ and why does it matter for youth players? Baseball IQ, what we call The Mind Game at this academy, is a player's ability to understand game situations, anticipate what is likely to happen, and make smart, informed decisions rather than simply reacting or waiting to be told what to do. It matters because two players with similar physical tools will perform very differently if one understands the game and the other does not. As competition increases at higher levels, this becomes an increasingly large factor in who succeeds.
At what age should a player start learning these concepts? Basic situational awareness, like knowing the count and the number of outs, can be introduced as early as 8 or 9 in a simple form. More advanced concepts like pitch sequencing, reading swings, and building a real hitting approach are appropriate starting around 11 to 13, once a player has enough game experience to apply the concepts meaningfully.
Why does my kid know the mechanics but freeze up during games? This is almost always a gap in The Mind Game rather than a mechanical one. A player who has drilled mechanics extensively but has not practiced situational decision-making will often hesitate or make a poor decision under pressure, even when their physical skills are sound. The fix is attaching real game situations to practice reps so decision-making becomes a practiced skill rather than something the player encounters for the first time live in a game.
How is The Mind Game different from the mental game of confidence and focus? The mental game we have written about separately refers to a player's emotional and psychological state, things like confidence, focus, and recovery from failure. The Mind Game refers to a player's understanding of the game itself, situations, strategy, and decision-making. They overlap and reinforce each other, but they are not the same skill. A player can have excellent emotional composure and still lack situational understanding, or vice versa. Both need direct, intentional coaching, which is why we treat them as two connected but distinct parts of player development. Read more in our companion post on the mental game.
What is the fastest way for a coach or parent to start building this in a young player? Start asking questions instead of giving answers. Before a play happens, ask the player what they would do in that situation. After a play happens, ask them to explain their decision before correcting it. This single habit, practiced consistently, does more to build situational understanding than any drill or app, because it forces the player to actually think rather than simply react to instruction.
Kenny Flermoen is the Founder and Academy Director of Mind Game Baseball Academy, based in North Augusta, SC. He brings 21+ years of coaching experience from tee-ball through Division I, a B.S. in Sports Management, and a Master's degree in Coaching and Athletic Administration from Concordia University-Irvine.
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